Why should you get to know selfmade?

My lady will inspire my wildest passions - someone I can love and indulge - we will dine out, go to the theatre, be invited to art previews, fly to European destinations when the mood takes us, or simply stay at home,listen to music, watch a movie and share a bottle of wine. Whatever we do, we would do it together. I am caring, generous, considerate, ambitious and discerning. I have a great sense of humour, sometimes dry, occassionally cynical and I love life. Let's share it together.

He describes his ideal match thus:

My ideal lady will be vivaceous, like her independance and make me feel its good to be alive.. She will be attentive, flirty, caring and always considerate. This is an intuitive lady, someone who knows exactly what to wear for the right occassion - which means dressing in style when we go our for dinner but happy to wear jeans and wellies when we are out in the countryside. Naturally she will be beautiful but not vain, flirtatious, yet loyal. Inevitably we would share the same sense of humour and take pleasure from one anothers interests. This lady will love home as I do, happy to sit beside the fire and listen to music. This is a lady who will put as much into a relationship as I will. Equally she will be turned on when I suggest we fly to Paris for the weekend or Barcelona. Like me she will have a zest for life and be energised by the living of it.